2. Young people's concerns

Now read seven children's views below. These views express the emotions that children often feel when they enter care.

As you read, think about their needs and what you could do to help them.

  • "Will I have my own room, and what time will I have to go to bed? What happens if I don't meet curfew? I can't sleep if I go to bed early, I usually go late. If I wake in the night can I make a hot drink? I can't go back to sleep otherwise."

  • "What if I don't like the other people here, or if I think that they don't like me? Or if I get bullied? What if I feel left out?"

  • "Who can I talk to and ask when I'm not sure? Is there going to be someone special for me who will listen to me?"

  • "What am I supposed to say to my mates about why I'm in a home? They'll never let me hear the end of it."

  • "What if I feel really lonely and depressed and I feel like harming myself?"

  • "What is the food like? Do they know I'm allergic to nuts, and I can't stand broccoli? Will I have to eat in the group? I prefer to eat while I'm watching TV."

  • "I feel lonely, I'm missing my family - when will I see them again? And can my friends come and see me?"